I will definitely do what January suggested, to build myself back again...I'm sure you'll fight vigorously to try and prevent the inevitable. If there's any chances of reconciling it's going to have to be in a position of strength on your part, not vulnerability..your stuff together, recalibrate yourself emotionally and move forward with the past taking your time to sort of mourn what is happening... There's nothing you can do but really take the blows that are being dealt to you emotionally and the worse thing you can do is bombard her with sappy messages and apologies, please just give me another chance everything will be better this time I promise..kinda thing. Following the breakup, I tried pleading with her... I even told her that I would cry myself to sleep... There's nothing more unattractive to a woman than a man who appears needy and desperate. There are no guarantees when it comes to second chances. I can't give up on her after everything we've been through... Relationships involve the efforts of two people, so there is nothing you can do to make her want to work on this again, she has to want that again herself.
They can’t just expect you to drop what you’re doing to go on a date with them.
Talking about how many kids we'll have and stuff like that. You gather and collect yourself into a position where you are poised, confident and collected again.
I can't give up on her after everything we've been through... You can't worry about what's already been done..just move forward.
That doesn’t mean waiting by the phone for them to ring.
If you’re always calling them, they’ll start to notice and you could come across as needy.
When getting to know each other you might be tempted to exaggerate your past and imply you’re different to whom you really are.