Four dates really isn’t a lot and he is what calling once a week that is not actions of guy totally all in.
The only time I would feel differently is if it was someone I already had a previous friendship with that case I am going to only date that one person.
While there’s no magic bullet to prevent heartbreak, there is a good chance that if the relationship ended sooner you would not have fallen so hard.
In the future, from the first date, let the guy know what you want and need: exclusivity. Even if you’ve missed your opportunity to set your boundaries on the first date, do it now.
Part of me wants to throw in the towel but I really like her and thought she was worth the wait. If youre new to dating then just play the field till you find a compatible person. In proverbs it says that He who finds (stumbles upon) a wife (or husband) finds a good thing and obtains favor from the lord.Insisting that a man date you exclusively while he’s dating you sends him the signal that you are special, that you deserve love and care and respect. In my many years of matchmaking I’ve found that the one thing that’s gotten even the most confirmed bachelors off the fence and into marriage are women with inner self-confidence – no matter how quiet or soft they are – that insist on being treated the way they would treat their partner – with exclusive attention. Ziva Kramer, MA has been an international matchmaker, dating coach and spiritual advisor for professional singles for many years.