It subtly communicates to you that he can take care of you, and that life with him would be fun!
While most of the above benefits of dating an older man fall under the “he’s just more mature” category, it’s worth pointing out additional perks of dating a mature man. He’s likely been in at least one long-term relationship, so he knows how to give to his partner and compromise when necessary.
Being financially stable isn’t about making 0k a year. It’s nice to date a man who can afford to pay for dinner.
Whose car doesn’t break down in front of your house… Who could afford to take a spontaneous weekend getaway with you…
If he’s ready for a long-term relationship, he’ll make it known. He’s not out to waste time; he wants to know within a few dates whether you have potential or not.
Now, I’m not saying every older man is ready to settle down again. But they’ll be more upfront about it if they’re older.
He’s already played games in his 20s…and he’s over it.That take-charge attitude and the desire to take care of his woman is plenty appealing.Younger guys tend to be jealous at the drop of a hat. But how nice is it to be with a man who knows that, from time to time, another man will admire his lady…and not freak out about it? He’s assured of what he has (including you) and isn’t threatened by another man.These are all status indicators, and they’re part of the attraction factor.
It’s completely natural for you to be drawn to a man because of his status.At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned.