I wanted someone insatiable, someone whose eyes set ablaze when they talked about something important to them.I wanted someone who was a good friend, a motivator, someone who enjoyed being a blessing to those around them.For others, like me, you might be better off on the road not taken.
For some, dating apps will widen the pool and lead to success.
"So if we agree that common interests and values are the types of things we're all looking for in relationships, how can we be expected to find them in an app that sorts for first-glance aesthetics and the ability to write one clever sentence about yourself? Your filters aren't set for love; they're set for lust, and their equation for it is faulty at best.
Your best chance at not getting eliminated before you even start is to conform, in which case you arrive safely in the dating pool without any of the things that make you, you.
Anyone trying to date outside of their phone has the potential to come off, well, creepy. I went speed dating for some face-to-face conversations, and it changed everything.
I could gauge my interest within 30 seconds of talking to each person, and didn't have to make plans and text awkwardly all week just to get to there.
But how does one even meet people without an app anymore?