Lucia is a dating/relationship expert specializing in Cougar relationships, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, former host of “The Art of Love” on L. A and the KTLA News who called her “The Queen of The Cougar Jungle”. Just because she's older (and presumably wiser) doesn't mean that she gets to call all the shots. You'll need to get comfortable exchanging roles as to who leads. The biggest error a man can make is trying to be someone else other than himself. If you are going to date an older women you can use the opportunity to learn and grow. Really try to figure out what your needs are and communicate those needs honestly.
What guys can do is really get clear on who they are as a man. Don't be scared to let her know who you really are.
He is the author of two self-help books and writer for The Huffington Post and Inc Magazine, a regular contributing expert on The Bill Cunningham Show. In order to keep the passion and desire alive, she needs to see and feel your strength. Women need to know they have a real man by their side; capable, decisive and confident.
Sometimes younger men may be in awe of the older woman's experience a bit.
Remember, having a plan and leading accordingly turn any woman on, regardless of age.
Avoid these mistakes and maximize your chances: A younger guy will often try to ‘copy and paste’ or even out match an older guy.
This is a pointless strategy because they both offer something totally different.Also, they will not respond to men on dating sites or social media if the message is something like, "Hi" or "Hello". To be honest, this mistake is something that happens for everyone but more so for men who are dating older or younger. Don’t give up on what you are because you think someone else of a different age is going to want something else.