This isn’t a CV; you aren’t auditioning for anyone, so don’t write it like you are trying to impress. Don’t be afraid of telling people who you are and what you love doing.
It will come across as needy, and although you may have the sexiest picture imaginable, your chances of meeting someone are virtually zero if you sound like a douche. A truly attractive person is comfortable in their own skin and has the confidence to reveal their thoughts and feelings without caring what anyone else thinks.
The slower method is about building trust and rapport.
The best way to do this is to suggest moving away from the dating site to a more personal method of communication.
From here you can send each other messages throughout the day and it’s a great way to have some fun.
After you have built up a little more trust you can then transition to speaking on the phone—hey, you have each other’s number anyway so it makes sense.
The more messages you send out, the more replies you will receive.
Research has also shown that the best time to send a message is on a Sunday afternoon.
This isn’t a universal rule but take women as an example—the more messages a woman receives each day, the pickier she is going to be.
Likewise you don’t want to tease someone who comes across like they might not be the most confident person.