I wrote this guy off as a lunatic, until I began to think back to my days at the BBW clubs in NYC. On any given night, it seemed that -most of the Black men were giving attention to the big White women -most of the White men gravitated towards the big Black and/or Latina women -most the Latin men were more open, spending time with all the women (as long as they could dance).
Every time I was at Goddesses I would notice interracial couplings all over the dance floor.
It will be harder when you get older to find your partner.” I went to weight-loss camp when I was young and was introduced to boys and the bases.
It was a different world there: Size wasn’t so much of an issue, though there was a hierarchy, with the skinnier girls at the top.
I’m starting to wonder this is just coincidence, or if a lot of these men will only date Plus Size Princesses of a certain race. I have more thoughts but I know race can be a complicated subject, so I’m going to stop here and let you guys chime in.
Are you a White/Black/Latina/Asian PSP who feels like your race has an effect on your dating life?
Do you find that men of a certain race hit on you more?
In light of yesterday’s controversial piece by Maura Kelly, I’m posting a story by Jennifer Abramowitz (as told to me), an amazing plus-size woman who recently spoke openly to me about her experience dating in New York City.
Some of them were very heavy, but they were married and successful in relationships. I started out on Jdate but worried that maybe people didn’t fully see my body type, even though I never lied or showed a picture that wasn’t me.
Some jerk once IMed and asked, “Are there really guys out there who are attracted to you?
” Friends of mine were setting one another up on dates but not me.
There are cultures and races that prefer plus-size women.
I’ve had really in-shape guys, bodybuilders even, contact me.Oh, but if you leave (which they make very difficult to do), they’ll continue to take money from your account and operating a mission to mars is easier than getting your money back.