“So please make sure to be honest without yourself about why you are attracted to us, and if it’s for who we are — not how we make you feel.” Just because you’re older, though, doesn’t mean you can switch off from life. ” It’s definitely important that as an older man you have financial stability.
However, don’t assume this is your most important drawcard. This is often one of the biggest concerns men have when dating younger women.
The reality is that younger women will have expectations about how you should act.
They don’t want to be your play toy as you relive your youth.
Anecdotes to support the rules are thanks to our friends at Ask Men.
It’s tempting to succumb to temptation and try and have a casual fling with a younger woman. You see, one of the most attractive things about an older man is his maturity. She wants to learn from your wisdom and experience in life.
You need to attract her with your character and other good qualities. Even though she’s younger, she knows deep down that her youth won’t always be around.
“In both of my past relationships with older men, I’ve gone into them assuming that there won’t be any games played, and that choosing to date someone who has had the time to make past relationship mistakes will have learned from them.” This is a key mistake many men make.
They think women will judge you based on your prowess in the bedroom.
I like older men because typically they have already figured a few things out, generally are more financially stable, know what they want to do with their lives, and are knowingly dating someone younger because typically they want someone a bit spontaneous. I want to be spoiled but not necessarily with material goods.
Being the younger one I want to feel like you feel lucky to have caught a young thing like myself, so don’t take me for granted.
I’ve learnt a thing or two about the benefits of dating younger women, and how to make it happen.